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Are You Tired Of Thinking What Went Wrong In Your Last Relationship?

1. Trying to getting touchy too soon:

This is a big no-no! Getting physically intimate to your partner should be gradual and over a period of time. If it is too fast, you may come across as a perverted man. Try to get to know her for a couple of dates before moving a step further. It is also important to understand the body language. If she wants to get close to you, she will give the signals herself.

2. Disrespecting women:

Always respect other women even when you are in a relationship. Respect refers to, talking to them with respect as well as talking about them respectfully to others. A gentleman is always a turn on. Small gestures such as listening to her, advising her, pampering her, holding the door for her, etc. are signs of respect. Women may get attracted to bad boys. But when it comes to settling down, they will always choose a gentleman.

3. Trying to control her life:

No woman wants to be told what to do all the time. You are not dating a three year old. Let her take her own decisions. Give her advice only when she asks for it. There is no excuse for dominating and overpowering your mate. A man should never feel, that his partner is below him. It is very important to respect her and her decisions. There always has to be a balance while dealing with her.

4. Giving her the remote control of your life:

Granted, you should not dominate your partner. However, that does not mean you let her take total charge of your life. From the very beginning, make it clear that you like to do your things your way. Don’t let her rule your life and interfere with each and every decision you take.

5. Being unambitious:

A woman would want her man to be a little stable in life and someone with whom she can feel financially secured. Therefore, show your partner that you are capable of looking after her. Be ambitious and work hard to achieve your goals. Even if you are not always successful, you should try. This is one trait women find irresistible in men.

6. Fear of commitment:

Most of the women know that most men are scared of commitment. However, after some amount of time they will expect you to settle down. Why would a woman waste precious years of her life in a relationship that has no future? As time passes commitment is necessary in a relationship.

7. Choosing someone or something else before your partner:

This includes family, friends or even something you like to do. Yes, it is important that you have your space and also make time for your family and friends. However, it is also important to not place these things or people before your relationship. Placing others before your partner may lead to insecurity in her. This insecurity will slowly kill your relationship.

8. Taking your relationship for granted:

This is a common mistake. No matter how old is your relationship, never take your partner for granted. Always try out different ideas for your partner to make things special for her. Plan surprises, get her flowers and gifts once in a while and keep reminding her of how much you love her.

9. Getting insecure about everything:

Learn to trust her. You should not feel insecure about everything she does or every person she meets. Remember, the reason she is with you is because she is interested in you. If your relationship is meant to be, it will. If it is not, no matter how much you refrain her from talking to somebody or going somewhere, it will not help.

10. Flaunting your money all the time:

If she is with you because of reasons other than the money, she will hate this. Women hate men who showoff their bank balance all the time. They like simple and down-to-earth men with whom they can feel comfortable hanging around. So relax a little or she will think you are out just to buy her.

If you have finally managed to meet the lady of your dreams, don’t let silly mistakes ruin a good and healthy relationship.

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